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What if the Russian bride has been married before?

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In Russia it is still common to get married at a pretty young age. Therefore the likelihood of you dating a woman who has been married before is quite high. There is nothing wrong with it, especially if you have been already married as well. But it is always good to know some things in advance.

A woman who knows what she wants

A woman who has experienced marriage has more clear expectations about the qualities that her future partner has to possess. These women are for sure more demanding than the Russian girls who have not been married before. Divorced women are less likely to hang out at the online dating portals just to marry someone and move abroad. They know better what kind of stress goes along with a broken relationship . So maybe it is not that bad thing at all and you can trust these women more. However, if you a looking to marry a Russian woman, then you will hav to try harder with the Russian ladies who have already been married before. You will have to prove that you are a reliable partner and you can make her happy in marriage.

Things to watch out for

As always there is the other side of the coin. If a woman has divorced before she is likely to do it again. Statistics say that 50% off the second marriages fail and 75% of the third time marriages have the same sad result. However, with experience people become wiser and they will try to avoid repeating mistakes that they made in their previous marriage. If you want to create a family with a woman for whom it is not the first marriage, you have to meet certain standards that the lady has set. In general it means that you should not be like her ex-husband. At the same time there will be some things she will love more about you. Something that her husband was not really good at.

Acting mature in the relationship

Another good side of dating a previously married woman is that she is also experienced in the relationship. She knows the certain checkpoints of it and you can expect the transitions from one point to another to be more smooth. Dating Russian women who already have one marriage behind them can be a very good thing if you have overcome the same experience. Than you will definitely be able to understand each other better and none of you has to teach the other about the family life. You can start learning about it from scratch together. You can expect to reach the points in your new relationship that you were not able to reach with your previous partner.

How to discuss previous mariage

It is ok to talk about the relationships of Russian ladies with their ex-husbands, but do not expect them to reveal all the details about it at once. The situation might be embarrassing for the Russian girls, they might feel shame about the way they acted and they would not like their new partner to get a bad image of them. So do not force the woman to lie to you asking about too many details. Be open if you have been married yourself, but remember, although it might seem like a good common ground for the conversation, it is not a good idea to involve too many talks about the old relationships. Some Russian girls find it really annoying when men talk about their ex-women. You can find positive aspects in all the different things. Dating more mature and experienced women can add more spice to the relationship. You can also find someone who understands you and is aware of the difficulties of marriage.